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Have you heard one of these phrases from someone before? When someone tells us they’re not ready, or that they don’t want us to wait for them, it is NOT an invitation for us to try to prove them wrong. If you want to avoid getting stuck in a situationship that goes nowhere, this is when you must be strong, thank them for their honesty, and move on as you keep searching for the right person.

The person who’s right for you is both RIGHT and READY. If you are finding dating in 2025 challenging and want a plan to get better results, don’t miss my once-only free live event, “Dating Made Simple,” happening Tuesday, May 20. Go to LoveLifeTraining.com to sign up right away. 👊 P.S. Thank you, @Jay Shetty, my friend, for having me on your show.

The foundation of any meaningful relationship is simple: being seen, accepted, and wanted for who you truly are. If someone doesn’t see you, doesn’t accept you, or doesn’t want what they see, then the relationship is missing its most beautiful and essential part. Don’t settle for anything less than someone who chooses you fully. That’s the standard you deserve. Thank you, @Jay Shetty, for having me on your podcast, I always love our conversations. ❤️

🚨 NEW PODCAST IS OUT! 🚨 What REALLY ends relationships? We often think it’s huge differences in personality or values that cause breakups, but just as often, it’s the small, subtle, micro-behaviors that lead to relationship detonation. Check out my brand-new episode of the Love Life Podcast, where Audrey, Stephen, and I explore how these silent killers show up—and how to catch them before they do lasting damage. Listen now wherever you get your podcasts! 🎙️

Thank you, @Jillian Turecki, for joining me on The Love Life Podcast, for this amazing conversation. ❤️

Have you ever struggled to let go of an ex? Tell me your experience in the comments 👇🏻

NEW PODCAST EPISODE IS OUT! Do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners? Are you dating someone who pulls away just when things get close? Have you ever wondered if the person you’re dating is avoidant or simply not that interested? In this episode, @Stephen Hussey, Audrey, and I dive deep into the topic of how to handle avoidant attachment, the signs to look for early on, and what you can do if you’re dating someone with avoidant behavior. Tap the link in my bio or head to your favorite podcast platform to listen!

Do you agree? Tell me in the comments. 👇 Thank you, @Jay Shetty for having me on your podcast.

Remember this: The right person for us is the person who values what’s valuable about us over and above anything we could be missing. Do you agree? Tell me in the comments.👇

Love that looks good on the outside but leaves you feeling alone on the inside isn’t love worth keeping. At some point, protecting your peace has to matter more than holding on to a relationship that doesn’t meet your needs. If you’ve ever felt like you’re always torn between chasing someone exciting or someone who brings you peace, I just released a video with @Jay Shetty that I hope will help you create a love life that actually works for you. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching!

Being a good communicator is powerful. But being someone who takes initiative without being asked? That’s rare — and that’s what keeps relationships strong. 🎧 This moment is from the latest episode of my podcast where we break down the 4 must-haves for real commitment — and how to know if someone is truly right for you. Tap the link in my bio or listen wherever you get your podcasts to dive in!

What does emotionally available love really look like? In my brand-new video, I break down six key signs of emotional availability (including the one I shared in this video ☝️) so you can spot the difference between fleeting attention and real intention. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching!

What does it really take to build a successful relationship? In our latest podcast episode of @thelovelifepod, we discuss: Results from a 20,000-person Instagram poll on what people think makes a relationship last. The Gottman Institute on bids for connection, and the 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions. The toxic buildup of micro-resentments—and how to address them early. How to repair arguments when one person wants space and the other wants closeness. Relationship “hacks” you’ve never heard of (including love mapping and emotional buttons). Why “perfect” couples still argue—and how to argue better. The Michelangelo Effect: how great couples help each other grow. Tap the link in my bio or head to my YouTube channel to watch now!

I constantly hear from you that dating in 2025 can feel really hard. So I’ve decided to put together a brand-new free event called “Dating Made Simple” to help guide you through modern dating. This clip was taken from my last event, which helped more than 50,000 people, and this one will be even better! If you want different results in love, don’t miss this! It’s happening on Tuesday, May 20, and my goal is to give you the tools to simplify dating and make real progress toward finding your person. This training is completely free, and it’s designed to help you cut through the noise, avoid the wrong people, and focus on someone who’s right for YOU. Head to LoveLifeTraining.com to join us. ❤️

There’s a shift that can happen in the early days of dating—one that, if we’re not careful, can derail the natural attraction that’s building. It starts with excitement: imagining a future with someone new and amazing. But then we raise the stakes in our mind. A delayed text makes us anxious. We overthink, overcompensate, and try to secure the connection, creating an energy that can push someone away. The key? Slow down. Lower the stakes. Let things unfold naturally. The right person will choose you for who you are, not because you chased them. If you’re ready to approach dating with confidence and ease, join my free live training, Dating Made Simple, on Tuesday, May 20. Go to LoveLifeTraining.com to sign up. ❤️

Brand-new podcast episode is OUT! 🚨 In this episode, Audrey, @Stephen Hussey, and I explore how to handle feeling behind in love, and dating confidently and calmly even when it feels like time is running out. Learn how to avoid panic-driven decisions, especially when the stakes feel high—whether it’s starting a family, feeling like the only single person in your friend group, or navigating others’ expectations.   This episode will give you the tools to find love and ease the pressure you might be feeling.

You’re not behind, and so much can change in the next 6 months if you do certain things. If this message resonates with you, don’t miss the replay of my masterclass, “Dating Made Simple” (where this clip was taken from). The replay expires TOMORROW (Friday, May 30) at midnight PT. And in this training, I will show you how to stand out in modern dating so you can drastically change that area of your life! Comment “REPLAY” below or head to LoveLifeReplay.com to watch it before it’s gone. 💛 (Seriously, don't miss this . . . it goes away forever tomorrow night!)

One of the biggest mistakes in dating is focusing on how much you like someone instead of how they make you feel. Do they make you feel valued, secure, and seen? Or do they leave you feeling anxious and unseen? Shift your focus—your happiness depends on it. Thank you @AB | أنس بوخش for the beautiful conversation. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com to watch the full video. #ABtalks

Do you get too obsessed too quickly and overinvest in dating? This clip is just a sneak peek from my full 90-minute masterclass, “Dating Made Simple,” where I revealed the 4 secrets to finding love faster in 2025. The feedback has been incredible, and I didn’t want you to miss it! It’s still available for a limited time—totally free. Drop the word REPLAY in the comments, and I’ll send you the link to access it before it’s gone. ❤️

We often cling to the idea of what could have been in a past relationship, forgetting that the version we’re holding onto is pure fiction. The truth is, relationships aren’t defined by fleeting moments of magic—they’re tested over time, through challenges, growth, and change. What you’re mourning might not be the reality of what that relationship would have become, but rather the story you’ve written about it in your mind. P.S. Tap the link in my bio to watch the full video!